Gay Nell Millard of Fredericksburg passed away on May 3, 2025 at the age of 60. She was born in San Antonio TX to Vernon Dale and Viola Beckmann Vestal. She married B.J. Millard in 1992.

Gay Nell is survived by her husband B.J. Millard of Fredericksburg, sons Kash Millard of Fredericksburg, Link Millard and wife Katherine of Orange TX,; brothers Dan Vestal, Hal Vestal and wife Tanya all of Fredericksburg; 2 grandchildren Clancy Millard and Effie Millard.

She is preceded in death by her parents Vernon Dale and Viola Vestal.

In Loving Memory of Gay Nell

We remember and celebrate the life of Gay Nell, a beloved mother, grandmother, and friend, whose warmth and spirit touched everyone who had the joy of knowing her. Gay Nell lived and worked in Fredericksburg, where her talents and kindness were shared across many parts of the community. She contributed to the local school district, brought a welcoming presence to area wineries, and expressed her creativity and care as a gifted hairdresser. No matter the setting, she left a lasting impression through her dedication and her genuine heart. Above all else, Gay Nell was devoted to her family. Married to her husband, BJ, for 32 years; she was the proud mother of two wonderful sons, Kash and Link, and she often filled her time with heartfelt stories about their life together. But perhaps her greatest joy came from being a grandmother. Known lovingly as "Nana," she treasured every moment spent with her granddaughters, who brought light to her life just as she brought light to theirs. Gay Nell also cherished her friendships deeply, sharing laughter, love, and countless stories with the women who were lucky enough to call her a friend.

Her presence will be deeply missed, but the memories she created will remain a comfort and a blessing to all who knew and loved her.

A memorial service will take place on Friday May 9, 2025 in the Fredericksburg Funeral Home at 2:00p.m.

Memorials may be made to the Needs Council, Grace Center or the charity of your choice .